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An eccentric rambler on life's lessons and mercies, found and lost… :)


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One, and the Show Has Just Begun!

Exactly a year ago, round about this time (1120 ish pm ๐Ÿ™‚ ) the twinges started. She stayed put though. Just tiny stirrings, but nothing to heave about ๐Ÿ˜› Till the next morning when it was confirmed that she was getting into the groove ๐Ÿ˜€ She led her mom a not so happy dance, but finally showed up late into the night, much to the delight of her big Sister, Naina, her parents and grandmoms ๐Ÿ™‚

SHE showed up. We were ALL very certain, that it would be aย HE,ย  don’t ask how. My thinking was, given the time that the doctors and the scans told us, this was a Made in Thrissur edition, so for some strange reason, it had to beย HE. Plus a certain calculation of the appearance of the Momma. I’ve never been wrong.ย Oh wait! I have, I have. Just once before. With my ownย ๐Ÿ˜› So sure was I that I was going to have a baby girl, that I asked the doctor to check, once he informed me that my second one was a baby boy. And this girl is the spitting image of her father ๐Ÿ˜› Some miscalculation there! ๐Ÿ˜€

Paru had better sense and trust I know. He/She, it really didn’t matter, though it has cured me of my wish to try and predict the boy / girl thingy these days. Loss of faith ๐Ÿ˜€

So, yeah, this one, this ONE (hint hint hintย ๐Ÿ˜€ ) was as cool as they come. Except that babies don’t come cool ๐Ÿ™‚ Not in the height of summer. But darling Naira, to whom this blog is dedicated, was/is a pretty cool customer ๐Ÿ™‚ For one thing, her parents (and grammies) were more experienced, and on top of the situation, and second, she had a great big sister to keep her sweet ๐Ÿ™‚

Like her mother, and her paternal grandmother (as babies ๐Ÿ˜› ), Naira has been really un-fussy. Her parents were boss, the rest of the family adoringly hers. She took to the car seat very young, and began her independently seated travel within three weeks. So easeful was it, that her mother could actually drive both kids around, by herself. So proud of you Paru, for that ๐Ÿ™‚

Someone said, through a meme, recently, that the second borns are usually more troublesome. I’d say awesome is a better word. (Yes, I’m second born ๐Ÿ˜› ) My second born would agree, as would Naira’s mom. ๐Ÿ˜› Weย are really good babies. We love our Moms and Dads a LOT. More than the others. So much that we might just burst into tears if you just so looked at us. We’reย sweet ๐Ÿ˜€

Naira is as laid back as they come. She took her time turning over on to her tummy, by about the end of the fifth month. Decided teeth were a problem and held off till the eleventh month, when she finally thought that her crawling might actually gladden othersย  – particularly her maternal grandmom ๐Ÿ˜€ Till then she was comfortable doing a little Michael Jackson-ish backward creeping/swimming, but getting to where she wanted anyway!

Through the nearly 3 weeks I spent in her company in March, I was sure that she would crawl one day, and give me the high of cheering her on. She waited, (did I mention she’s a cool customer? ๐Ÿ˜› I know, I did ::D ) she waited, and slowly got on her knees. Then swayed gently, and lay flat again, on her tummy. She waited till the 2nd of April to finally move forward on her knees. Duh. She waited, oh yes, she did, till I left, to do that ๐Ÿ˜€ But once she found out about the pace she could use, there has been no stopping her ๐Ÿ™‚ She also decided to show a couple of teeth, finally, so that all that murmuring around her would cease ๐Ÿ˜€

Naira means the shining one, the brilliant one. And she is all of that. A cheerful soul, smiles easily (now), and keeps you at arms distance if you are a stranger. Till she sees you regularly around her, she’ll smile, but keep her distance. Such a radical change from her friendly elder sister, Naina. ๐Ÿ™‚

Naira, the second born is a determined young lass, already. She determines things right now, and somehow or other it does go her way. She calls you with a commanding Aeyyyy! Smiles when you respond, and gifts you a rare chance to carry her, just to please you, if you please her and let her be, initially ๐Ÿ™‚

Babies do sense a lot about a person, and can hold back if you are too forthcoming. Patience is rewarded soon enough. This, I have noticed in the most startling way with this wee darling.

 

She’s one, today, the 16th of May, 2018. A day she will spend with her close family, since her Dad’s still on his way to meet her, having been transferred, and therefore being on the move.

Happy birthday, my darling gurl, our Naira โค You are wished much joy, and laughter. Happy times, fun times and the all encompassing love of family and friends that hounds you, scaffolds you, sustains you, surrounds you all the time!

Stay this cool always. This zany. With the brilliance of your beautiful smile zapping all those who meet you โค

All our love, dearest Naira! Happy happy birthday to you!

16 May, 2018

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The Bees’ Knees

That is, quite enquivocally, what you are, to me, and a whole lot of others. ๐Ÿ™‚ Who? We’ll come to that soon enough ๐Ÿ˜€ That is theย way of this blog, and rambler. Together, they kind of mess up your reading skills ๐Ÿ˜›

I first heard this expression at a workshop in Kochi, where the resource person was an Englishman, a Prof. Richardย Something or Other (do excuse me for not being able to recall – I hate that about myself :/ ), conducted by the ABS – Association of British Scholars (??? I think ๐Ÿ™‚ ) in association with the British Council, I do recall. We, the thirty plus number of participants, were given a worksheet with several expressions in English, many quite obscure, and vastly underused hereabouts, and were asked to match them with their meanings. Yep, teachers doingย match the following. No one was able to score an excellent ๐Ÿ˜›ย Go on, rejoice at how them dratted English teachers got their comeuppance from a Sahibย  ๐Ÿ˜›ย Serves them right, no?!ย ๐Ÿ˜€

Errr, back to theย bees’ knees. Clearly we weren’t that. But it still remains in my mind as being one of the most delightful sessions at a workshop where you had a native speaker giving you the inside stories and the inflections of language and usage.ย Like a bat out of hell was another that caught my fancy…. Deep sigh. ๐Ÿ˜€

Oopsie, here I go again, rambling ๐Ÿ˜€ So, ummm, where was I? Oh yes, the who/what/how about the bees’ knees.ย Yeah, I’m working this one to death, aren’t I? As if them bees aren’t already working enough! ๐Ÿ˜€

So, bees? Yep they’re busy alright, and give us honey. Pack a sting too! So etymology (excuse me, while I break into laughter, that perhaps only Ashwin, Arjun and I can fully appreciate, since it is part of the spelling bee mimic’s repertoireย ๐Ÿ˜› ๐Ÿ˜€ ) – apparently the bee collects/stores the pollen in its knees, and we know what a good thing that is right? From the etymology (teacher in full flow, pliss to noteย ๐Ÿ˜› ) it is to be understood thatย the bees’ knees refers to something that is wonderful, excellent, very good….ย you get the driftย ๐Ÿ˜›

That’s it? Okay, you probably wonder. Do you? Then you aren’t a regular here. Avoid, confuse, then cause bedlam of thoughts and words and notions, is how this rambler works, sometimes ๐Ÿ˜€ We’re not done yet, that is what I mean ๐Ÿ™‚ I mean heck! I haven’t even begun (past 400 words now, in case you need to split from this screen ๐Ÿ˜› )

I’ll try and make this easy. He’s the bees knees, he is. A wonderful human, which in turn takes care of everything, does it not. Who’s knee at the moment is undergoing a bit of errr…. reconstruction ๐Ÿ˜€ You see how I couldn’t not call him the bees knees? He’s known to be a laid back Bahubali (the juniors have given him that title – so that makes me, who? Sivagami! Woah! Thank you Bwoys ๐Ÿ˜€ ) , someone who’s got everyone’s back, even if his knee is put to risk. Well, he’s the Bees Knees ain’t he? Whether he’s gunning away, full throttle, or easing to an idle, and lazing, binge watching, minding his babies, the right mixture of goofy sport and firm instructions, having a blast with his friends or holding the fort at the Ship, thwacking the youngsters there, or giving them some good advice, rollicking away – through it all one word stands out, which, at one point both he and I would have pooh-poohed ๐Ÿ˜› Workaholic? Ask him and he’d certainly deny it, but I know that that is the perception, at least among quite a few.

And of course, as he has said, the secret of him being that way? “Chicken” he answered recently ๐Ÿ˜€ Whatever, it be, I know that he is the one Sane and Sensible voice in our rather zany family, though he too can collapse into bedlam at any given point! It’s been quite a year, altogether, from last year ๐Ÿ™‚ He’s got another lovely daughter, Naira, a more articulate elder daughter, Naina, a beautiful gorgeous partner, Parukutty, and the love of good friends and family ๐Ÿ™‚ Apart from a torn ACL, left knee (basketball match ), which had to be reconstructed ๐Ÿ™‚ He’s got some much needed rest, and is still to recover completely. However, does that stop him being AWESOME? ๐Ÿ˜€ ๐Ÿ˜€ ๐Ÿ˜›

Nothing ever will, for this unstoppable offspring o’mine!

Happy day, I know it was, Arjun! Wishing you health, happiness, much more joy that your heart can hold, warm giggles with your girls, and great great times, where you’re headed! Love you to bits!

These are pictures from an early birthday celebration, as he goes in for his review for his knee ๐Ÿ™‚

12 April, 2018, Arjun’s birthday ๐Ÿ™‚

More from the previous years, here ๐Ÿ™‚

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Oh Mahnnn…

she exclaims, quite unconsciously, this being her constant epithet, when something does not go the way she wants it. The first time I heard it, a couple of weeks ago, I did a double take, and hesitantly asked her parents about what she has seen/heard, for her to use this danged expression. I was wondering at that point, if it would lead to less desirable expressions that her peers and she would find easy to absorb. Yep, typical overbearing elder mode here ๐Ÿ˜€ I was assured that whatever she watches/hears is supervised. And then a while later, that same day, she invited me to watch one of her favourite videos with her. It dawned on me then, YouTube Kids has quite a few of these videos where the girls talking seem to use this a lot. A lot. And that is how it crept into her expression ๐Ÿ™‚

(Long long post alert* ๐Ÿ™‚ )

And that is simple one part of it all.

Over the past four years, this rambler continues to be awed by this girl. The one who owns her heart as no one else has, or ever can, I know. It’s like me dear Meggie (LINK to her blog) says of how your first born will always hold the lion’s share of your affection; the first grandchild will also be the one who will always have you open-mouthed, in awe, at the way that tiny being keeps making you proud, and simple grows the love within you, in ways you think is beyond you. ๐Ÿ™‚

So is it with mine. She does, all the time. Naina. My Kurumbiiii… The one I can talk to, endlessly, the one with whom I’m the child almost all the time, the one who I even quarrel with, with her asking me at the end of it, Ammumma, you don’t like me? – and me saying, Whaaat? I’ll always love you my darling! Because that is the fact!

Oh Mahnnn, I want to say, how can I not?! The best part here being that I can say that and she will understand! At two years, she joined the pre school they have, next door, and she was the littlest girl in the school itself (the admissions are given once they turn two. And they are admitted to the play school on 1 April. So One has to be two to join. She turned two on 28 March, a couple of years ago, and was just in time to join. I was extremely hesitant, and wondered how this wee mite would even spend the two hours she was to, without being traumatised. I mean, she could talk but her speech was yet to be clear and articulate! But given her cheerful and upbeat nature, she quickly took to school and its routine easily and went on to become quite at home there. All thanks to her first teacher, and the helpers there – Sheetal Aunty as she was known, and the “Amma”s there. The previous blogs for her, (ONE, TWO, THREE ๐Ÿ™‚ – Links at the end of this piece – if you do get to the end of it ๐Ÿ™‚ ) all have mentioned her ability to be the ray of sunshine wherever she goes. She is after all an Aries born, just like her father ๐Ÿ™‚ my Sun Child!ย 

When school started, I wondered if her ability to communicate in English, which she has acquired by way of exposure to some delightful movies, the books she has read to her by her parents, and her funny grandmother, ๐Ÿ˜› , wouldย kind of be lost in the acquisition of other languages, primarily Hindi, because that is what most of the kids communicate in, when the class is comprised of children from different language backgrounds. But thankfully, she has maintained that level she acquired! No mean feat ๐Ÿ™‚ And that amazes me, even now ๐Ÿ™‚

I’ve been here with her for the last two weeks plus, and each day I continue to admire something more about her, the way she articulates. Oh Mahnnย is what I want to say, while conversing with her. Bath times are the best, after play times, of course. Bath times take a long time too. You must realize that taking a bath is serious business, and mostly, for her it’s a communal thing.

Naina, lets go take a bath!

Ohhkaaeeiii Ammumma, let me get my bath toys.

No , no, there isn’t much time today! We’ve got to be quick.ย 

Ammumma, that’s not fair! My ponies have been waiting to join me!

Ammumma gives in, DUH! So we visit her toy room (it’s practically a toy godown now!) and figure who the lucky ones are. Once she’s got them, we get to the bath basics. Dunk them in water, all the while talkingย to them,ย forย them,ย amongย  them, and to Ammumma in between ๐Ÿ˜› There is never a break in the flow of the conversation, which is fast paced, fluent, and inย English!ย Oh Mahnnn I think! So these friends of hers are diving, swimming, jumping from bucket to mug and back again, splashing, flying… andย talking ALL THE TIME!ย  When the Ammumma is sure that ALL of them are likely to catch cold with the amount of time being wet is considered, she orders them… oopsie, HER out. So one by one each of them staggers out from the bucket to the mug. Except one. (This happens EVERY single time! ๐Ÿ˜€ )

But Ammumma, Flutter fly is being naughty today!

Fffllllutter who? What?ย 

Ammumma, Flutter Fly, she doesn’t want to come out of the bucket!

Ammumma is getting impatient; she’s half wet already, her grandottie is completely wet, even her hair, and the chances of catching cold alarmingly rise, but she has to letย Flutter Flyย  decide she needs to come out ๐Ÿ˜›

Ammumma, Flutter Fly isn’t behaving herself!

Tell me, dear readers, how does one deal tactfully with that, and being awed by the proper use of words by this wee delight? ๐Ÿ˜€

Ammumma decided to reprimand the said pony, and sternly tells her that she won’t be allowed to join Naina’s bathtime EVER again!

Oh Please! Ammumma, I’ll jump out, I pwomise!ย This was in a high pitched Pony-voiceย  ๐Ÿ˜€

On the way out, Naina jumps to the said pony’s defence and says Ammumma Flutter Fly is ‘kaared of you (consonant clusters are still a difficult area for the grandottie ๐Ÿ˜€ ), youย ‘ckoldedย  her!ย  It’s not fair!

Ammumma gives up! This is bathtime. Each day, a different motley group of ‘friends’ join in, and there is ALWAYS ONE being that is naughty and will NOT jump out of the bucket! But yes, I don’t think there s anything the Ammumma Monkey can do about it ๐Ÿ™‚

She has these ‘knock knock’ sessions too, when she comes in as a Salon Lady, the Furniture Person, a Doctor, and makes house calls. We are to join in the conversation. At the end if we were to giggle, oh my,ย Oh Mahnn , we’re in for it!ย It’s NOT funny! She fumes!ย 

And her puh-tend games, oh my oh my!ย I’m just puh-tending Ammumma is a favourite escape route for many a mischief she plays ๐Ÿ˜€

She’s curious, and if she hears a new word, she won’t let you be, till you explain it to her. The other day I remarked that she was observant. She asked. I said she noticed things, details, and spoke about them. Soon, that became part of her register ๐Ÿ™‚

I love how I can conduct a ‘gwon up’ conversation with her, and make sense of it, both to her and myself.ย Oh Mahnnn I tell myself, she’s such an articulate soul already!

I worry too, about how she might not be understood, or make herself understood to others, the kids, maybe, the teacher, others like her Naani, who would find it difficult to follow English. But she had that covered too. With her less fluent Hindi ๐Ÿ™‚ She knows to who she can speak in which language for optimum communication. I know you’ll wonder why I’m so chuffed about this ,when, probably, most kids can do so… I am so, precisely because most kids I’ve been around, as adorable as they are, do find this aspect a bit difficult. Yes, she has them strong linguistic genes, as I mentioned in last year’s blog, but with it she knows how to use it optimally too! That is a wee bit of maturity along with ability, wouldn’t you say?

And then to top it all, she goes right back to being the kiddish kid she is, not the gwon up I sometimes wonder she could be ๐Ÿ˜› And she asks for ‘godi” – or to be carried. And I heave a sigh of relief ๐Ÿ™‚

This past year, she became an elder sister, and while she still wants attention, she knows the little one does too, and helps much, so much with giving her that. Naira is as much her baby ๐Ÿ™‚

The other day, she carried one of her toys around, and told her mother that she, the toy, had a baby in her tummy ๐Ÿ˜€ She also said she’s going to get the baby out by making a C on her tummy and getting it out ๐Ÿ™‚ Another of those little videos for kids she’s seen. I am certainly looking forward to questions on how babies got to get placed inside the tummy and what answers we might have to give ๐Ÿ˜€ In fact she’s already decided that only Mummys get to have babies in the tummy, and not daddys, though her daddy might be an exception ๐Ÿ˜€ Intriguing, most certainly, this is!

So, Malayalam? I know a lot of you might wonder at that. Well at the moment, she knows ‘adi’. Workable knowledge like that is enough. Because finally, it’s all about being able to communicate, right? She’s got that pat ๐Ÿ˜›

Each time, each birthday, when I feel my heart is filled with love that it might fair burst, I find a capacity for more. She’s entirely responsible for that.

For keeping the child within alive.

For letting me know that sometimes puh-tending also is just fine ๐Ÿ™‚

For never ever giving up on those that don’tย behave!

For telling me that talking talking talking is the way to do things ๐Ÿ™‚

For helping me understand that my framework of expectations needs to be set aside, and we can frame the rules, as we go along ๐Ÿ™‚

For still loving me, with that supreme knowledge that I love her as much, if not more ๐Ÿ™‚

For helping me appreciate my own offspring better, and understanding that a lot of things I got wrong, they;re doing right, by their kids.

That redemption, finally, is what your grandchildren give you.

She gives me that. I know I can’t have been all that bad, when I wake to her smile, and hold her close, as she sleeps, trustingly, in my arms.

She keeps me sane, that’s what she does. In a world gone crazy, she’s the brightness, and the cool shadows too… to rest this heart ๐Ÿ™‚

She’s four already, today ๐Ÿ™‚

Happy Birthday, my dearest darling Naina! You make our world immensely enchanting, you, you, you… 4 sometimes going on 14 m-m-m-millenial ๐Ÿ˜›

I love you, gurl! โค

This is one of the videos I saw her watching, with much concentration, and interest. The best part is, she follows each of these conversations, and her articulation is very close.

28 March, 2018
Naina’s four โค

PS The Grandparent Manual essentials, discussed in her Blog, when she turned TWO, still hold good, even if wee Naira has made an appearance ๐Ÿ˜€

Her Birthday Blogs are here ๐Ÿ™‚

ONE-2015 (LINK)
TWO-2016 (LINK)
THREE-2017 (LINK)

Nearly 2000 words! ๐Ÿ™‚


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These are a few of my favourite things…

… about her, this DIL ka tukda (piece of my heart ๐Ÿ™‚ ), an awesome Virgo girl, (LINK) partner in crime to the Lion in our family ๐Ÿ™‚ Now you know how he flourishes! All because of this young girl, and the way she’s taken him by the hand and walked beside him, having got his back, being the guiding light, the one who fixes him too, and loves with all that she has, in her heart โค and soul ๐Ÿ™‚

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Yes, Ashwin, HER! Happy Birthday, Neeti!!!ย 

As intense as they come and as fiercely loyal as they are, this one all of that and more. My DIL, my Neetikutty, an alter ego of all my quirky self too!Be it movies, the fun ‘ideas’, and the love of books ๐Ÿ™‚ Both of us ‘hatke‘, me more, though ๐Ÿ™‚ She too strives hard to ensure I stay thatย hatke! The perfect daughter a mom could have!

I know I’ve spoken about her too, a LOT, on this space, over the years, but what you love and admire about a person ought to be said enough times, I guess, and then some!ย And so it is with her too…

…like you can call her at any time of day or night, and know you shall hear an answering voice, even in the dead of night. Sometimes even your best buddies don’t, can’t do that!

….when life throws a spanner at you, you kind of reel, in slow motion and yelp and curse, right? She smiles, grabs it, puts it in her tool kit, to use, for tightening a few loose nuts around her, primarily her partner’s ๐Ÿ˜› ๐Ÿ˜›

… her sense of style and being able to carry off with grace and elegance, even aย homely (hehehe Neeeettiiiiiiii ๐Ÿ˜› ) sweatshirt and pants ๐Ÿ˜› ๐Ÿ˜› But really, she’s just plain gorgeous!

….the way she can focus on what needs to be done (yep, I can, you can too, duh! but how long do you stay with it???!! Gotcha!!! ๐Ÿ˜›ย ), and does it!

…. those Time Management skills! I’ve learnt a thing or two from her, about incentivizing (the self, people, the self!!!) and actually making it work! However, I’m still a work in progress! (pun-DUH-intended!!! ๐Ÿ˜€ )

… her ability to see the big picture, and then heck! join in the fun of circumventing it! The goofiness of a good laugh, thumbing one’s noses at such things… I love that about her!

…her deep deep devotion to those she loves. I still need a few lessons that a way! I’m still learning, as we all are, I know ๐Ÿ™‚ But you know how it is, how it comes easy to some people more, over the others? She’s one!

… her generosity of her heart, her time, her work, and yes, her bosses do tend to take advantage of it ๐Ÿ˜› Much as that is tagged as a no-no these days, it is something just as refreshing!

This, up ย here, isjust a wee bit of what makes that gorgeous, zany, passionate gal who’s my darling Daughter In Law, my DIL, an echo of my own heart – and she celebrates her birthday today!

Happy Birthday Neetikutty! You’re a goo gu’l , you are!!! (remember that awesome night we dragged down the beds onto the floor to watch Eliza Dolittle??!! It was the best!!!ย And yes, I am a goo gu’l too!!! ) Here’s wishing you life’s best, with love, laughter, warm sunshine, romantic rains, stunning rainbows, and all the colours and passions of life to add to the masterpiece of life you are making, as you journey onward! May the Brush strokes of the powers that be, be gentle, healing, loving and soft! Live life Quantum Size, my dearest daughter! There’s no one else I know who deserves to!

I love you, Neetikutty! God Bless, always!

 

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My fav. pic of you ๐Ÿ™‚

30 August, 2017

More, for Neeti:

A Goo’ Gurl She Is!

The Queen of His Heart!

Here’s wishing another dil ka tukda, Keerthi Gautham on her birthday too! Another girl who makes me wonder at how these beautiful souls manage to rise above the things life throws at you, take it in their stride and march on oblivious to it! Lesser souls would pause to catch their breath, not these Amazons of the heart and spirit!

A wisp of clouds in the sky takes her fancy, and her camera’s and she brings to you the most wonderful of pictures, words and stories she creates… our girl on Cloud No. 9! Uma, (her blog is HERE!) you’re wished a wonderful day today, and the best of times ahead too! Big hug!!!

Happy Birthday, you gals, Neeti and Keerthi and Uma!! I love ya’ll!


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Cheers Mate!!

… is a common enough expression, where he’s at. He uses it often enough, aptly enough, and for me, watching him conduct his conversations… he uses it amazingly enough. ๐Ÿ™‚

This here, is the young lad who clung to his momma as a wee one, refusing to let anyone other than close family, literally close ๐Ÿ™‚ He is our Chotu, his father’s Kunjunni, Ash, Ashwin as he grew older… with a whole lot of other names I’m sure I do not want to know ๐Ÿ˜› ๐Ÿ˜› You know how it is!!!

From a shy Lion cub, to the engaging, handsome Lion he now is, his has been a journey of fortitude and determination. Today I remember, with pride, and a rush of such love, some of those times that brought to the fore, the quiet cub being transformed, as a revelation!

How he blossomed from the young lad who couldn’t speak up confidently, to someone who regularly took part in Recitation and Gita Chanting programmes, much to my delight, and his, I’d like to believe ๐Ÿ™‚ A quantum leap in self – confidence, all wrought by himself. ๐Ÿ™‚

How he took up the reins of leadership with his cousin, as House Captain, Vikramsila (and me now being Viswabharati House In Charge ๐Ÿ˜› ) ensuring that they were champions that year ๐Ÿ™‚

Being unfazed by a 5 digit rank at the entrance, and finding his way to the Course and College he intended to join, albeit not a Government College! But what the heck, it was whatย he wanted ๐Ÿ˜€

There had been no looking back since then. College, friends, football, crazy drives, falling in love, getting to keep that love close โค – he’s made so much work for himself ๐Ÿ™‚

Most of all, making a move to a time and space that wasn’t a comfort zone. If you knew my lion cub like I do know, you would know how difficult that had to be! Leos like to be in charge, and this one was anything but, during that rather testing time of life, when he moved to Australia, where his partner (in crime ๐Ÿ˜› ) Neeti was . Long months of patience paid off, and he, through his own application to the tasks at hand, carved a niche for himself, and found himself a job ๐Ÿ™‚ It took time, but he did get there…

But most of all, it is the wide eyed wonder of the child in him, the easy possessiveness of his “Ammakutty” that I treasure ๐Ÿ™‚ We fight, we argue, we gossip, we even have the most mushy conversation moms and sons have…. and at the end of it all, I’m just so glad I have him, almost parent like in the way he cares ๐Ÿ˜€ Turned tables on me, he has ๐Ÿ™‚

Who he is today, is also because he, clever as he is, has found the spark to the fire that burns bright in him… his lovely lovely partner, Neeti ๐Ÿ™‚ Their story is here (LINK)

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Linda Goodman’s Sun Signs is an entertaining read, which , if one reads with an open mind, does lead one to discover a fair amount of similarities to personality types of the different Zodiac Signs. ๐Ÿ™‚ About the Leo Child she has this to say. Interesting, given that this is about a Leo Child โค

“Remember that he’ll pretend to be very brave, but secretly fears he isn’t. Hug him tightly every night and love him with all your heart.”

Today, suddenly, this thought comes to mind, for all the courage of his convictions he’s had, and still has, there is this cub I want to hug real tight, to tell him, yes, it’s going to be okay โค โค

It’s another special day for him, my second born, my Chots, my Ashwin โค

 

Happy birthday dearest Chots, from all of us! You’re wished a lovely day, a lovelier year ahead ๐Ÿ™‚ You’re wished laughter and good company of friends and loved ones. You’re wished endless supplies of all that makes you sweet and happy (this is as much for Neeti too ๐Ÿ˜› ) You’ll always be wished so much love, so much love that you catch your breath at the sheer volume of affection pouring down upon you โค You’re special, my dearest bachchaa, and nothing ever, is going to change that ๐Ÿ™‚ And may you always be enveloped by the benediction of blessings and prayers as you and Neeti voyage on ๐Ÿ™‚ โค

 

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I miss you so! Love you Chots… May this be the awesomest year yet! God Bless!

So here’s this song, that I found on a random search ๐Ÿ˜› Okay, not really random, but it was chosen from a list I keep going back to, each year. It has a 100 songs, that list. Should help, I guess!

Enjoy this sweet sweet melody, my dearest Achukutts ๐Ÿ™‚ โค I love you so!

Cheers Mate!!! Let’s get a Foster’s, shall we? ๐Ÿ˜€

2 August, 2017, for 3 August, 2017

Earlier Blog Tradition blogs for Ashwin, each year, are here ๐Ÿ™‚

2009

2010

2011

2012

2013

2014

2015

2016