Ms. Pea, the Princess!

Once upon a time
On a mid-November day
To happy parents, was born
A pert little Princess.

Full of face
Maidenly grace
A tomboy impishness
A child’s innocence, openness

Quirks, and
Sudden spontaneity
Were all gifts she grew with, into,
And carries, even now
Proudly!

Pretty, is she? Oh yes!
Poetic? Undoubtedly, the best!
Passionate? About almost everything,
Especially a certain…*ahem*!!!
Pouty, petulant? Errrmmm, only to charm! :D
Playful? Always, as the child
She’ll always be,
No matter however many years pass!

But

Pea? Ah! Therein lies a
Sweet fairy tale, of the Princess
Who enchanted (as a mermaid would, perhaps)
A sea-faring, handsome young man
Only to be enchanted herself… :)
Knowing, through lifetimes lived
And yet to live, he was the ONE
To complete her! Her Prince.
The other Pea, in the pod :D !

So Ms Pea, and her Handsome Pea
Will soon find their day, their way
To the ever after horizon…

But, wait -
No that , but this day
Is hers alone, to be celebrated
To be loved, all the more

To be always wished
All of life’s happiness and love :) :)

Happy Birthday, Sash-
God bless! Always!

15 November, 2011, for 16 November, 2011 :)
Pic. stolen from Sash’s DP on FB :D

An August Month :)

I’ve always liked August. Of course, the most basic reason being it is a birthday month, but more than that, the name itself. There is something, isn’t there, about how August it is. In August.

It’s the time when rains intensify, then slack. It is the time when festivities fade, then rise, in anticipation. The time when Onam slowly unfolds, around the corner. The time when a brief ten day vacation happens (if one is lucky to have the Thiruvonam during the August part of Chingam maasam :) ).

It is the month when two of my Lion Cubs were born. The Second Born, and his brother, and comrade-in-arms, Kiran.

It’s that time when I remember Indygurl and miss her, all the more; for she is a Lioness too, having made her mark on this Universe, on 2 August, years ago.

This year, August is special. It’s a time when fruition comes to be. Of hopes, wishes, desires, aspirations. Kindred hearts, mirrored souls, a season of ripening, of the fruit of sweet love.

John Keats’ “Ode to Autumn” has always reminded me of August, ever since this vibrant lecturer read it out to us in College. The sheer golden sheen, the warmth of sun-flecked nature, the call of something beyond…

It is a time, this time, to spend in remembrance of a warm soul I met last year. Someone who keeps me going, when things seem tough. Someone who did not spend enough time in this world, but sped on Angel Wings, to keep other Angels, like her, company. Someone who lives on, regardless. Tejaswee.

It’s that time when life meets life anew, when love beckons; when slowly, but surely, the threads weave closer, forming patterns designed so long ago; inter-twining memories, making fresh ones, to take in the journey forward.

Yes, it’s August :)

So Happy Birthday, my dearest little One, Ashwin, for the third! May your footsteps always travel upon promising paths, and find each journey exciting and successful! May joy and love hound those footsteps ever!

And Happy Birthday, dearest Kiran, for the sixth, for the brilliant ray of Sunshine you will ever be, to me. All smiles, and pure wit :)

Happy Birthday, dear Lioness, Meggie aka Indyeah for the second! How I do long to hear from you again!

And Happy Birthday, to a dear dear dear beloved daughter, Neeti… :) , for the thirtieth of the month. More August a date I have to know :)

Happy Anniversary too, to My EB and ESis in law, for the thirtieth  oops, thirty first.  Also my YB and Y Sis in law’s! You two couples rock!

Praveen, cannot help but remember, and wish you, for the third! Happy Birthday!

The thirty first of July, 2011

(An under 500 word post. A first time surely, except for the 55 ers here :P )

Vishuaashamsagal! Better late…

This was in the drafts, waiting to be scheduled, but incomplete. And being busy on Vishu, and it’s eve, because of the anticipated joy and preparation of the SB’s visit, it is being completed only now. The finishing touches. And this post is more for the verbal/linguistic reader, than the visual, because I forgot to take pictures of the awesome Vishukani I had arranged :(:)

Belated Vishuaashamsagal.

The Konna tree, at my parents’ home, a beautiful beautiful sight!

Here’s a beautiful message I received via sms, from Omana :)

ഓര്‍മ്മകള്‍ കൂട് കൂട്ടിയ തളിര്‍ ചില്ലയില്‍ 

പൊന്നിന്‍ നിറമുള്ള ഓര്‍മകളുമായി 

ഒരു വിഷുകൂടി വരവായി 
സ്നേഹത്തോടെ ഒരായിരം 
വിഷുആശംസകള്‍

(Pliss to ignore and excuse spelling mistakes in the Malayalam printed here. Google’s transliteration is responsible for it :P )

It’s that time of the year again, when the golden drops of the sun take the form of the Kani Konna… the Cassia Fistula tree, or the Indian Laburnum, it’s bunches of chandelier shaped gorgeous yellow flowers, seen almost all over the countryside, in Kerala, and elsewhere.

It’s Vishu. The beginning of a new year, in the Malayalam Calendar. The beginning of the month of Medam (മേടം), the first of the 12 months of the calendar we follow.

This year, Vishu was celebrated on the 2nd of Medam (മേടം), on the Makam Nakshatram (മകം നക്ഷത്രം), because the Sankramam, or transition of the Sun into this Raashi was on this Nakshatram, which happened to start only sometime during the noon, of the 1st of Medam. So my dad informed me, referring to the Panchaangam. It is still a bit confusing, but not being well versed in astrology and its terms (though I have a great interest in it- esp. predictions! :) ) I accepted it.

After a gap of several years, I had a Vishu Kani in my own home, not my parents. Else we always gather together as a family at my Dad’s place and celebrate the New Year. This year, the SB was to arrive on the eve so I decided to have my own :) My mother instructed me, and with my badgering (don’t I always?) she managed to retain her calm, telling me why each thing was for :) Most of it was… “I don’t know. It is, that’s all! I DON’T know everything!!!” I’m a pest!

So she gave me her uruli (ഉറുളി) a medium sized one. I was to arrange everything in it. I record it here (too late; still, it is here, for future reference :D )

First a layer of rice - unkkalari (ഉണക്കലരി )

Then the vellarikka, the orange ripened cucumber vegetable (വെള്ളരിക്ക);

coconut split in halves (നാളികേരം ഉടച്ചത്)

thiruvidada or cloth (vastram) (തിരുവിടാട, വസ്ത്രം );

ripe mangoes, banana,

vermillion (kumkum കുങ്കുമം )

kajal, made at home if possible :) (കണ്മഷി)

jackfruit (ചക്ക), other fruits, gold and silver.

An important thing is a mirror, two kinds, the normal, and the valkannadi (a symbol of Bhagavathi, or Mother Goddess) (വാല്‍ക്കണ്ണാടി).

Spread all over this should be the Konnapoovu, the Konna, the golden chandelier flowers (കണി കൊന്ന), and the Erukkumpoova (എരുക്കുംപ്പൂവ് ), the flowers (picture below) from the Erukku (എരുക്ക്) Tree (a medicinal plant)

Arrange these in the order mentioned, and if one cannot fit everything into the uruli, it’s ok to place the fruits outside. The rest ought to be placed within the uruli. A brass lamp, traditional Kerala type is placed near, and lit, at the time of the Kani… the first sight on the Vishu morning. The flowers are placed last and strewn over the items there.

Very early in the morning (usually the time for the Kani is mentioned in the Almanac) usually between 3 to 4 am is the auspicious time to see this blessed sight. All of the things in the assembled array all promise prosperity, and success and good fortune. So says my mother :) !

Except for the jackfruit I placed the rest of it, and had a beautiful Vishu Kani of my own, for me and mine :) . Loved ones together on such occasions add to a simple contentment, and a feeling of completeness. I was blessed, so was my SB :)

Belated Wishes to each one of you once again.

*****

Actually it was a triple whammy this day :) The Elder Brother’s Birthday(S), according to both the Western and Malayalam calendar was also on Vishu day :) Birthday Greetings too :)

******

The Athiraathram concluded on 15th April 2011, at Panjaal. I was fortunate to have been able to visit on the 11th day, for a brief period of time. Was happy to witness certain offerings to the fire, at the centre of the Chithi, and the pressing of the soma plants to extract juice, which would then be taken for Saumyam, and for the offerings to Agni again. The Saumyam is especially beneficial for women who are pregnant in their first trimester and for couples who have infertility problems. It was interesting to read from Surekha Pillai (@surekhapillai, on twitter) who was involved with the Media there, how she met some people born to mothers who had partaken of the Saumyam in the 1975 Athiraathram at the same place! More on the details of the Athiraathram here, on Sandeep Varma’s blog and the Official Website. At the end of the yaagam, people thronged to witness the final burning of the yaagashaala, which after it returns the Agni, the divine element, back to the Arani (Whence it was brought forth) resembles only a forest fire, lacking the divine force. Just before the yaagashaala was set ablaze, it rained. Poured, I am told. And so it concluded. Physically perhaps. It is held close in the hearts and recounted both in words and thoughts for those who have followed it closely and been part of it. Surekha Pillai (@surekhapillai, on twitter)  aptly says, as she finally leaves;  ”it’s raining tears. i guess #athirathram is finally over.” It found resonance in thousands of hearts!

Word count under 1000. That has to be a first(except for the 55 ers) for this eccentric rambler :D ! Have a wonderful year, all of you! God Bless!

16 April, 2011

Metamorphosis :)

I’ve always wondered what it is with change that simultaneously fascinates, frightens, freaks one out, and sometimes repels :) But always but always brings a sense of wonder. As I feel today!!

Today I write about one that has unfolded before my eyes, that took place for me and others, because it changed him. Whom? The little one of course :) About whom, I have shared, here and here :) and here :D :D !

From the shy and reserved and icky picky baby he was to shy little cub he slowly grew to be, flowering slowly but surely, smiling more, making friends quietly, he finally came to his own in his high school and later in college, when he assumed his rightful place as Lion of his Pride :P (Lol! He was House Captain, in his final year at school,  and President of his Civil Engg. Branch Association at College :D )!

Yes, he is a Leo. And yes, he seems to reflect most of the characteristics (he discovered the joys of reading fairly recently, and more so, Linda Goodman’s “Sun Signs” from my collection :) :) ); I always thought he might by one of the quieter lions. I now realize there are no quiet ones I have come across :D , yours truly included :D :D !!!

He’s now gone off, to attend his first interview, on a job hunt, to Bangalore. I know he will be satisfied with how he does, though he will want to constantly push his limits :) :) And it will not matter much, the result, because he’s got so far on his own steam, and will propel himself further. Something I never thought I’d really see, but then there he is… :) All those Leo characteristics cannot be hidden under any bushel I guess :lol:

It’s his birthday today. I hope he’s given the best present ever, when he makes it through this day :) With Pride.

Happy birthday, Ash :) :) You’re the best!!!

And may God Bless you, always!!!

I guess I’ll never tire of saying this : There is nothing you cannot do, Ashwin!!! And, I know you know it too!!! Therein lies the magic that is YOU!!!

Muah!!!

Belated wishes (only a day late :D , for 2 August :) ) to another gorgeous Leo… our very own Lioness, Indygurl :) She’s in another universe right now, but I know we all miss her, and our blessings are with her  :) :)

May the best and most wonderful things always but always happen to you too, Abhi :) :) Love you!!!

3 August, 2010

7.30 am

Edited to add: As of this minute, as I type, at 1655 hours :) (so, my computer tells me)I am glad and proud to share with you the info. that Ash has made it thru’ the selection round, and got in… :) :) It’s a big thing, because it is all HIM :) :) Thanks for your prayers and wishes :)


I am twenty-five… :D!

What a liar! How can she go public with such a blatant untruth?!

Pssst… well, when you think of it, do you think…? Naah! How the heck?

Lol! The moment those familiar with this space read this blog post title, these must have been the thoughts that flitted through their minds? I’m just double-guessing, but I guess I probably would too… :D !

Well truth be told, this is true, you know. Maa kasam! (Pun intended :P – you’ll figure out the pun soon enough! :lol: ) I wrote about the first of the twenty-five birthdays on this very space, about a year ago. In fact that post still holds the record of the highest number of hits for a post, ever, on Overdrive :) . I loved writing it, and also, this one, on A Quest, the other blog I am at :)

By now, hopefully, the truth of the title will have been accepted without doubt! I wanted to share this here, and today, because the FB has gone public on Facebook about this very event! (FB as in First Born, please note :) )

The Sun Child write is very special one, for it worked magic :) It was written years before the FB was born, and at that time, even the thought of marriage was far from my mind :P ! The magic is that he turned out exactly the way I describe My Sun Child… not at all fussy, gregarious, pet lover, still dreamy… :) Each time I read it, I am amazed at the way things turned out! He is an Arien, a Sun Child too!

He celebrated the occasion with his friends on Marine Drive, cake cutting and smashin and sploshing on his face… why they do this is beyond me, still! :o !

We, ie the SB and I celebrated too. We baked chocolate cakes and made it into a Black Forest (or so I like to call it… :P )… complete with whipped cream and cherries.. though we forgot the chocolate shavings… :) Here’s how it happened:

Two chocolate cakes baked in a pressure cooker :)

Layered over each other, and slathered with whipped cream, on an overturned steel plate :)

Piping around the edges with Mehendi cone like apparatus made out of plastic covers, for lack of the real things :P !

More decorations… and finally…..


HAPPY BIRTHDAY ARJUN!!!!

Now you will perhaps agree the blog post is not lying :) :)

12 April, 2010